It Allows a Person to Workout What They Like

Self pleasure can be mutually beneficial for both people in the partnership. It can have an immediate effect when used for mutual masturbation. This is the when both people watch each other self love and the excitement of watching your partner can be very rewarding. It is instant gratification and can add another level to the love-making process.

The art of self-pleasuring though can go further. The use of self pleasure by the individual can allow either partner to explore his/her own body in a way that will allow them to experiment and find out what they like.

An example maybe a women using a sex toy or through manual stimulation when self pleasuring can find out she likes stimulation of her clitoris and on further exploration and discovery work out what pressure or how a particular stroke achieves the best possible climax for her.

A woman may want to take it a step further and use a sex toy such a dildo for self pleasuring. The use if a dildo can increase the fun as for example a acrylic dildo being hard is good for g-spot stimulation can then be used by a partner in the love making process once the women has become comfortable with the feel of the aid when she used it during self-pleasure.